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My girlfriend feels she's bi curious, should I be as worried as I am? We actually got in a fight over this when she decided to get a fauxhawk because well in teen girls I know that normally isn't the greatest sign to look for and all my friends rip on me telling me she's a lesbian. She's only even been attracted to females and as much as I hate saying it about myself, feminine males. She's watched Black Swan recently and found the movie to be beautiful and would watch it over and over again. Even the lesbian scene and she finds know problem with it in fact she's comfortable with the idea of doing that with another girl. We're both just teens but this has been a GREAT relationship and lately my paranoia has been getting me too worked up becuase I fear she's going to leave me. I went through a bi-curious phase myself and came out straight, but I didn't date anyone while I did that. I figured if you're in a relationship with someone for a while you'd maybe stop questioning it but it's only seemed more prominent as the days go on. I love this girl like crazy and I do not want this ending on my stupidity getting the best of me nor do I want her to randomly say she wants a girl(which has happened too much in my nightmares now). I want honest answers from you guys here, none of the "Oh you'll get a threesome" stuff I don't want one I just want her and her alone until there's a real reason to end this(God forbid). So help me out here guys should I just try harder to dismiss this fear and her odd attractions for the health of our relationship and my health in general or do I honestly bring it up to her again(twice in two weeks if I did now) and possibly spark another huge fight? I'd rather not fight but she's bad with emotions and I'm an emotional train wreck.
Again this relationship has been perfect until everything just piles up in my mind if this wasn't getting at me then this would still be perfect. Please help me out everyone I really want wisdom here. | | Just relax. Bi girls are just like regular girls when it comes to dating. If she is dating you, she likes *you* and while she may be okay with sex with another woman, she is not HAVING sex with a woman. | Sexual orientation - help? So. I guess I do have a fear of being a "lesbian" or I guess being labeled as one.
I have had lesbian / gay friends before, i am open minded.
I was definitely attracted to guys early on. I had a huge crush on a guy in elementary school - totally in love with the guy. But I also had a very jealous friend - who was a girl. This girl would try to embarrass me in front of the guy, made it seem as if it was not ok for me to like guys or him. She would embarrass me in front of my peers. She constantly made fun of me for liking the guy (he was very popular at school).. My friend was not, but she clung onto me because I was nice to her. I felt sorry for her because I knew of the abuse that went on in her home.
It was one of those toxic friendships that you can't shake off...
At home as well. I had to hide every relationship I ever had with a guy. After the one time I invited a boy over to my house in highschool - my mom yelled at me for a good 3 days. She named all the friends I had that were girls, she said it was ok to invite them, but not any guys. (the guy at the time was just a friend and we did nothing but talk at my house, but later on ended up being a boy friend of over a year). .
I stayed friends with this girl for a long time. Throughout our friendship I was attracted to guys, and went out with them, but had to hide it not only from my parents (especially my mom), but felt really uncomfortable talking about it or having my friend know. Because she would make comments, / make me feel uncomfortable or as if it wasn't right what I was doing. I guess she was jealous.
Anyway long story short she ended up a lesbian. For a long time I remained one of her only friends. (her abuse at home was horrible, and I tried to help her as I could. We never did anything. We would hardly ever even hug, because of her abuse she was very distant.
I thought a few times of kissing her (only once or twice) but it was in a moment where she was hurting very much, and I just really wanted to console her. I just wanted her to know things were ok. We never did anything like that.
She ended up on the street on drugs though...) i don't speak to her anymore... I have finally been able to start piecing my own life together without the weight of feeling responsible for another person all the time.
My relationship with my mother is very strained. It has always been distant. I have always feared my mom a great deal. She would often yell etc. but would also often use me for comfort. ex. come and hug me etc. as if I was her stuffed animal. Or she would try to show me affection right after yelling at me / throwing things / having an outburst.
Things at home were pretty rough. Lots of tension, anxiety, screaming b/w parents, really mean relatives etc.
My dad was pretty affectionate, and so I would get affection from him (hugs, comfort etc.)
Anyway. sorry.. I'll get to the point.
I often would look for comfort in women. When I would get drunk (as a teen) I would often cling onto some of my friends and I would just want to be held. But it was always from a woman.. (I thought maybe its sorta like I was looking for a surrogate mother type-thing, I just needed love, but real love, not being used as a "stuffed animal"). I wished many times just to be held by another woman..
I have had some fantasies i guess of being with women though.
And I do find myself attracted to some women.
I had a threesome when i was really drunk. It started with another woman, then a guy joined in. I was really drunk though, but I could feel a very strong emotional connection to the woman. I felt safe for once. But although it felt good. I can't say that it was as much of a sexual attraction. It wasnt enough to satisfy me sexually ( a woman)
It was more pleasing for me to be close to another woman. Hold her and be held by her.
I do want to try it though, be with a woman and not be drunk. But I think I am really scared I might like it. Or it might open up something new for me.
But then again somehow I feel like I just need some love... and I guess I just find it easier to be closer to women (even just as friends).
I do like to have sex with men. I like waking up next to a man. I love everything about men...
But somehow I can have a much stronger emotional connection to women.
I usually just have one night stands with guys. I want to have sex with men.. but somehow I'm scared of getting into a relationship. A lot of the time I'm scared what my friends will think of him. How they will react. If they will like him, or make fun of the guy like my other friend did years and years ago.
I'm 22 now...
What do you guys think? Leaning on lesbian or just need to sort through my past / build some confidence when men?
After the threesome experience and being w/ a girl for the first time, I am much more open to try things out. Experiment. I guess maybe thats the way to go? I dont know... but I am scared | I guess it's ok.i think u've already sorted it out.U just like to fill the gap of affection your mothetr created.No big deal.it's Ok.
Here,The hug u'd like= >>:<<
I have a lot of male friends and 2 or 3 female friends and I like to be hugged but unfortunately I can't hug anyone and no one hugs me. | Planning the best prank call ever!? I might call the taxedermists, and ask if they can preserve my grandmothers head to hang on the wall, and her body for a rug...
call the sex-toy shop and ask them if they sell any 11 foot long anal toys(im 14 so i cant really buy them...thank god)
call the teen suicide hot-line,
call planned parenthood and say my girlfriend got me pregnant(i am really a lesbian)
call the vets and ask them if they can euthanize my sister
call my brother and ask or a threesome(DISGUSTING)
CALL the gun store and ask them if its save to shoot a gun up my ***
call the bar and tell them its an over-the phone-robbery, now send me all ur money...
call the radio station on air and repeat "ET phone home" over and over in any random order | I heard about someone who called a hotel and asked if they gave hooker-discounts
...and when they said no, if they gave stripper discounts XD |
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