What is ponytail training in a BDSM envrionment? I am asked whether I am interested in ponytail training in connection with BDSM. I do not know what it is |
| Try going to the BDSM chat room on Yahoo Messenger I'm sure that they will be able to help you |
What are some good ways to start training a sissy slave in BDSM? I have a sissy/bf and we have been dating for about 3 almost four months.She(he) and I agree to different types of punishment but I need really great tips on training.Ive been googling potty training info and maid outfits but what else? |
You know, I could actually give a long and serious answer to this but people on the internets (especially Y!A) have a problem with me being a bit of a deviant.
Suggestions:
- strap-on
- whips
- Japanese bondage rope (they come in pretty colours)
Not going to go into any more detail until I figure out if this is a serious question or not. Anyway strap-ons are hilarious regardless. |
Is there any training facilities, schools or educational facilities that train in BDSM and submission? Not as a fantasy or roleplay event but as an oerganisational body that has a serious aim to providing access to training and education to become a better submissive in a BDSM context. I am referring to more the idea of a boarding school type of establishment, where there would be a set curriculum and in house accomodation for the duration of your course.
I find it hard to believe something like this does not eis in the World. I reside in the UK, but may be willing to travel. |
Is there a single entity that can teach you, from A to Z to be a skilled submissive? No, sadly there isn't.
There are folks who will take on people to train, La Domaine Esemar (www.ladomaine.com/) is the first one that comes to mind, although they are from the US, not UK. I'd guess there are similar establishments elsewhere.
Most of us sort of struggle our way in parts i think, attending local workshops and demonstrations. Many groups have submissive only discussion groups, they might be a good resource for you as well.
Good luck! |
Yaoi manga /w bdsm/training involved? i like reading yaoi but i cant find any good hardcore yaoi. i dont want to read ones that have very little or no action included.
i need some help to find yaoi which is really hardcore that i can read online which might include things like bdsm, bondage, training, cat ears, torture any thing along those lines.
if you can help me i would be very grateful.
thanks |
Try:
Hardcore Heart- Love it!!**
Yaoi/Mature (read this on www.youtube.com )
Hakui no Shihaisha- Love it!!**
Yaoi/Mature
www.mangafox.com/manga/hakui_no_s…
Kowarekake no Omocha- Love it!!**
Yaoi/Mature
www.mangafox.com/manga/kowarekake…
Kishidou Kurabu- Love it!**
Yaoi/Mature
www.mangafox.com/manga/kishidou_k…
Katayoku no Sokubaku- Great**
Yaoi/Mature
www.mangafox.com/manga/katayoku_n…
Love Prism- Love it!!**
Yaoi/Adult/Smut
www.mangafox.com/manga/love_prism…
Men's Love- Love it!!**
Yaoi/Romance
www.mangafox.com/manga/men_s_love…
Only You (TOHJOH Asami)- Love it!**
Yaoi/School Life
www.mangafox.com/manga/only_you_t…
Saihate no Kimi e- Love it!!**
Yaoi/Romance/Adult
www.mangafox.com/manga/saihate_no…
You're My Loveprize in Viewfinder- Wonderful!**
Yaoi/Mature
Yokubou no Shizuku- Love it!!**
Yaoi/Smut/Supernatural/Horror
www.mangafox.com/manga/yokubou_no…
Bitter (MINAMI Haruka)- Love it**
Yaoi/Mature
www.mangafox.com/manga/bitter_min…
Hope I helped some. :) |
BDSM training, domme training? I just started training as a Domme / Dominatrix and I had my 3 first training sessions pretty much back to back. I didn't know what to expect. Nothing grossed me out or scared me, and I thought it was FUN, although the sessions were pretty intense. I did get to participate. The problem is, I am feeling SO drained and I got a huge headache after wards and felt pretty bad, although I didn't feel bad during the sessions. Is this normal? I just felt soooo psychologically drained, I am wondering if this is normal for new tops, or if I should be rethinking what I'm doing. fyi I've been a bottom before and this has never happened. |
| It's definitely possible and it sounds a lot like the concept of "top drop", basically after a particularly intense scene where you're putting a lot of effort and thought into, you find yourself to be emotionally drained. It's sort of a similar effect of the fatigue after taking a very nerve wracking test or going for a really long interview however it tends to be more intense because of how much more you put into it. Out of curiosity, where/with whom are you training and what inspired you to switch from a bottom to a Domme? |
How to properly train my bdsm slave ? How to properly train my bdsm slave ?
Okay so im new to this but i do hope this topic is YA approp.I was really wondering since i am really interested in bdsm and "owning" a mans emotions, actions, tone of voice and a submissive man that possibly I need to perfect my Femdom skills!;) All SERIOUS tips will be valued ... And oh yeah i love being a freak!;) |
| You need to strap one on and treat him like your B****. |
BDSM/Dominatrix training in Kansas city? Hey everyone!
I'm looking for a place, an established dungeon perhaps, that would train me to become a dominatrix. It's something I am interested in learning more about. I tried to look for local references but did not find anything.
So does anyone know about a place where i can legally learn in the Kansas city, Missouri area? |
Thats a bit of an odd request but it's something more Doms really should do. In the lifestyle most of us Doms are self taught. Kind of goes with the territory you might say. The control freak in us refuses to bow to anyone even when we know we are showered in ignorance and inexperience.
M/f and F/m while sharing some basic concepts and most of the same technology are very different animals. Totally different psychology involved. F/f however is much closer in psychology to M/f than F/m in my opinion. Not identical, but rather close. Most of the key concepts apply. I have no clue what M/m is about but if I made a wager it'd be quite like F/m in terms of psychology, but it might be it's own beast altogether. I don't run in any circles with M/m either top or bottom.
You sound like you might have some switch in you. Submissive to some, Dom to others. Being the middle wheel, a sort of middle management might just be the place for you.
So I suggest first jumping on www.collarme.com excellent place to meet kindred spirits and ask questions about the lifestyle. You'll find pointers to tomes of knowledge related to the style of BDSM you develop. The lifestyle isn't a cookie cutter world. Each Dom except Gorians have their own unique blend of the various elements and how deep they are into it. www.bondage.com used to have a decent library. Not sure whether it's still there any more or if you can even access it. I haven't visited that site in several years. |
What does toilet training mean in a BDSM relationship? I am almost too scared to ask. |
Please tell me you seriously didn't ask that!!!
www.bdsmrealm.net/modules.php?nam… |
Yaoi manga with torture, bdsm, non-con, and/or sex training? er. I liked Love Prism and Hoshi no Yakata :D
Thanks |
XD lol Ok well each yaoi I reccomend is going to be hard core so yea.
Oshioki Gakuen
A toy with Sadness
You're my love prize in viewfinder
Okane Ga Nai - the manga is actually quite explicit
Hanairo Virgin Soil |